Why end-of-life planning is important
For most of us, it can be very hard to think about the day we are no longer here, because it comes with feelings of sadness, loss and even regret. However, just as bringing a baby into the world requires a lot of support, preparation and understanding, so too does farewelling loved ones from the world.
Making loss a little easier for friends and whānau
When somebody dies there are many, many decisions to be made. Even if you have a small farewell, this is still a choice that needs to be made. If we aren’t involved in our own end-of-life planning, it means our family and whānau are left to make all these decisions on our behalf, which can be incredibly stressful, especially if there are differing opinions among family. You can decide which questions you choose to answer in your Go With Grace Plan – below are some of the questions we ask about.
Questions to be answered, decisions to be made
- Would you like to be buried or cremated, and where?
- Would you like your organs donated, and why?
- Would you like an eco/natural or sea burial?
- Would you like your body to be kept at home?
- Would you like to be embalmed?
- Where would you like to die, if you have the choice?
- What cultural, religious and spiritual values, rituals and beliefs are important to you?
- What type of atmosphere would you like at your farewell?
- What sort of casket would you like?
- Do you have special songs, poems or readings you would like at your farewell?
- Do you have special photos you would like shared?
- Who would you like to be involved in your farewell (e.g. speakers, pall bearers)?
- Who would you like to be notified for your farewell?
- How would you like your life and legacy commemorated?
Frequently asked questions
For more information about how our planning tool works, please check the FAQ page or email us at hello@gowithgrace.nz