Give the Gift of Compassion this Christmas
This Christmas, the most meaningful gift doesn’t come wrapped in paper, it comes from the heart. A small act of kindness can make a big difference to someone who’s feeling lonely or overlooked.
For many people, Christmas can also be a deeply emotional time. It can amplify feelings of grief, reminding them of loved ones who are no longer here or traditions that have changed. While the world may seem full of celebration, some carry quiet sadness, and a simple gesture of compassion can help them feel seen, remembered, and less alone.
This Christmas, compassion can be the thread that brings light into someone’s hardest moments. Whether through time, kindness, generosity, or simple presence, every act, no matter how small, has the power to comfort, heal, and remind others they are not alone. Sometimes, the greatest gift we can give is letting someone know they matter ❤️
Older people make up a significant proportion of those living alone in New Zealand, this number is growing as the population ages, and many experience risks such as social isolation or loneliness, especially around times like Christmas when social connections are highlighted.
Compassionate gift ideas for Christmas or any time of year
in your community
- Bake something and share it with a neighbour
- Check in on an elderly neighbour or offer to run an errand
- Leave a kind note or small treat in a public place
- Offer to babysit so a tired parent can rest
Time & presence
- Make a phone call to someone who might be missing loved ones
- Spend time listening, sometimes that’s the greatest gift
- Visit a rest home or hospice (where appropriate)
Giving back
- Donate food, clothing, or toys to local charities
- Volunteer at a local soup kitchen or charity
- Pay it forward, buy a coffee or meal for someone else
Connection
- Reconnect with someone you’ve lost touch with
- Invite a colleague, student, or newcomer to join festive plans
- Include someone who may not celebrate Christmas but values connection